Hello friends, Aaj me aapko apni jindgi ki sachai batane ja rahi hu jo mere sath ho raha h uske bare me bata rahi hu plz.. muje bataiye me kya karu… Hello friends mera name purva sharma h me m.p. se hu or meri shadi u.p bhagwan krishan ki nagri me pichle sal jan. 2012 me hui meri sagai dec me hui thi me bahut khush thi mere pati eng. Ki padai kar rahe the unka last sem project chal raha tha mere sasur ne samne se riste ki bat ki thi mere dad unke ghar gaye the bat karne sab sahi tha uske bad me dad unhe dekhne delhi gaye waha meri unse pahli mulakat hui thi humne ek dusre ke bare khub bat ki mene unhe apne bare me sab kuch bataya me padai me jada hoshiyar nahi hu muje English bhi jada bolna nahi aata sab kuch apne bare me bataya yaha tak ki mene to unse ye bhi pucha ki aap muj jesi ladki mean graduate girl se shadi kyu karma chahte h apni field ki kyu nahi to unhone kaha ki nahi muje apni field ki ladki se shadi nahi karni h or humari bate hoti rahi wo kaffi hoshiyar h padai me or dikhne me bhi kafi handsome h har koi unki personality ko dekh kar fida ho jaye Wese hi me ho gai kya dikhte h or bato se bi unhone mera dil jeet liya humari kafi pasand ek dusre se milti h to mere dad ne jab pucha ki kesa h to mene kaha acha h pasand h or mere dad ne unke dad ko ha me jabab de diya or hum ghar wapas aa rahe the tab raste me unke dad ka phone aaya or unhone bhi kaha ki unhe me pasand aa gai hu or unki mom bhai or dad bhi dekhna chahte h Tab muje agra ke park me dikhaya gaya waha kisi ne kuch nahi pucha mujse or dekh kar roka karne lage tab mene hi kaha ki muje kuch kam nahi aata h meri mom ne kabhi mujse kabhi karwaya nahi h tab mummyji boli ki wo to hum shikha dege or usi din roka kar diya or shadi ki date niklwai kaha ki hum jan . me hi shadi karege mere dad ne kaha itni jaldi kyu thoda to time dijiye ek dum kese hoga par wo log mane nahi kaha ki hoga to jan me hi hoga or mere dad unki bato me aagaye sach to ye tha ki unhe me pasand nahi thi unki life me koi or hi thi but unke dad ko wo rista manjur nahi tha unka bhaia mom unke sath the but dad ke pressure ne unhe majbur kar diya tha or ye bat hume malum nahi thi hume laga ki wok hush h is shadi se ek bar ko muje bhi laga tha ki shayad me unhe pasand nahi hu kyuki wo sagai ke bad mujse bat nahi kiya karte the bahut hi kam kabhi kabhi to men eek din apni mom se kaha ki wo mujse bat nahi karte h bat kya h to meri mom boli esa kuch nahi h shayad busy hoge apne work me is liye nahi kar pata hoga or mene bhi yahi man liya humari shadi ho gai shadi ke bad kuch din to thik chala phir wo delhi chale gaye or me apne ghar phir wo muje lene aaye mere ghar or me apne sasural aagai meri sas ka behavior badla badla sa tha wo bat bat par muj par chilati thi ulta shida khti thi muje kuch samaj me nahi aatha tha ek din unhone muje kitchen me kaha ki tune apne pero par khud kuladi mari h muje is bat ka kuch samaj nahi aaya mere pati bhi delhi se aagaye the unka work khatam ho gaya tha or thoda bahut bacha tha to wo ghar par hi karte rahte the muje laga ab hum honeymoon par jayege par nahi gau\ye mene unse kaha ki hum honey moon par kab jayege to wo chillane lage kya honeymoon honeymoon laga rakha h nahi jana muje koi honeymoon par or wo lappy lekar sare din bethe rahte kabi work karte uske bad free hote to me sochti ki ab bat karege bolege mujse to game khelne lag jate muje bhi bada ajeeb lagta sasu ma bhi bat nahi karti kuch kam bhi nahi karne deti upar se khati kuch aata jat h nahi mene apne pati se kha ki mom muj par chilati kyu h tum pucho na bat kya h to khte h muje nahi pata kam karo apna samji us din unka bartav dekhkar me ek dum chakit rah gai ki ye wahi banda h jise mene pasand kiya tha jiski bate muje pasand aai thi me chup chap sofe par late gai rat ke 12 baj gaye wo apne lappy par game khelte rahe us din devar bhi ghar aaya hua tha me tv dekhte dekhte sofe par hi so gai or wo kisi se phone par dhire dhire bat kar rahe the mene jese hi karwat li to unhone mob. Band kar diya or fb par chat karne lage me ek dam uthi to dekha 2 bajrae h or wo fb chala rahe h muje bahut gussa aaya mene unse kha ki me sofe par so rahi hu aap itni i tni ratko kis se chat kar rahe h me bhi to dekhu ki biwi se bhi jada important kon h or unhone jhat se apni id band kar di or kaha koi nahi wo to me lappy band hi karne wala tha dosto us rat se hi meri life me bahut bada twist aaya subhah mene apne devar se bat ki tab usne kaha ki bhabhi thoda dhayan rakho bhaia par aapke bhale ke liye hi kah raha hu or phir aapki marji me bat samj nahi pai thi ye roj kisi se bat karte the ghanto ghanto mene pucha to khate h meri bestfrienfd h us se project ki bat karta hu to mene kaha ki wo shadi me kyu nahi aai to khate h ki uske yaha shadi thi to mene kah thik h ab bat karana meri us se muje kafi help milegi us se wo aapke sath 6 sal se h to kafi kuch pata hoga aapke pasand na pasand ke bare me to unhone saf mana kar diya ki nahi wo bat nahi karegi tab muje bada ajeeb laga ki kyu nahi karegi or ek din muje unke lappy se uske or...
inke photo mile jinhe dekh kar me ek dam sock me aagai ki ye to wahi ladki h or uske sath ese photo means us din muje pata chala ki wo unki gf h or mene unse pucha tab wo mujse ladne lage usi din se unka behavior or badal gaya kyuki sachai to muje pata chal hi gait hi or unhone mujse kaha ki tumne mujse kuch jada hi expectation kar rakhi h ki me tume movie dikhane ghumane firane le jauga me kahi nahi le jane wala ghar walo ko shadi karni thi kardi muje koi matlab nahi tab us din me bahut roi kuch samj me hi nahi aara ha tha ye ho kya raha h mere sath mere dad mom sab ye soch rahe the ki me bahut khush hu kyuki me unhe kuch nahi bata tit hi kyuki unke upar kya gujregi unhone muje itne pyar se pala posa shadi ki itne man se jitna unki hasiyat me tha us se jada hi kharch kiya phir bhi mere sasural wale muje tana marte the ki tumare ghar walo ne diya hi kya h tumare papa ne to tume bhar sa tala h sunte sunte me pagal jesi ho gait hi bas roti rahti nov. oct aa gaya ye sab shank arte karte dimak kam karna band ho gaya rote rote halt bhi kharab hone lagi thi ek din mene inki lappy se mail id khol kar dekhi to usme unhone us ladki ko mail dala hua tha kyuki wo unse bat nahi karti thi usne bat karna band kar diya tha kyuki mene inke fb par married ka event dal diya tha usi ke bad usne bat karna band kar diya or block kar diya tab unhone ye mail dala tha us mail ko pad kar me chakit rah gai usme unhone muje chodne ke bare me likha hua tha pad kar muje to kuch samj hi nahi aaraha tha jab wo ghar aaye tab meri unse kafi bate hui us mail ke bare me or wo mujse ladne lage tab mene kaha ki me ab sabko batugi ki bat kya h chal kya raha h humare beach me inki mom dad ko sab kuch pata tha ek din ratko humara jhagda hua kisi bat ko lekar to papa ji ne muje ulta shida sunaya or kaha ki iska khud ka chakar hoga tabhi ye apne mayke jane ki bat kahti rahti h tujse me bat karuga iske ghar walo se me puchuga ab or beta me teri life shudharuga ye sun kar me to chakit rah gai ki kese ma bap h jo bache ki galti par parda dal rahe h or dusro ko dosh de rahe h mere exam aa gaye the to me apne ghar aa gait hi but exam date postpone ho gai thi or mene ghar me sari bate batai thi or mene kaha ki me ab waha nahi jaugi muje waha nahi jana but mom dad are hum samjayege use esa nahi hota h rahna to wahi padega badnami hogi par kisi neb hi meri filing ko nahi samja kisi ne bhi mere bare me nahi socha mujse nahi pucha ki me kya chahti hu sabko apni badnami ki padi h par kisi ne ye nahi socha ki jab hum ek dusre ke sath khush hi nahi h uske dil dimak me mere liye koi filing hi nahi h to kya karege sath rah kar par nahi raho rahna padega gudda gudiya ka khel nahi h papa mere fufaji or ek bhaia aaye muje sath lekar ki bat kya h par kisi ne mudde ki bat to ki nahi sab ghar ki bat meri sas kahti h ki isko kuch nahi aata jata h kuch shikhaya nahi h wagarh wagarh to mere papa bole kam ka kya h aate karte karte shikh hi jata h inshan par ye kya h ki aap jab dekho tab tana marti rahti ho use esa thodi na chalta h sari bate hoti rahi par jo bat thi wo kisi ne nahi ki bas mere papa ne ye kaha ki is ladke ka kya farj banta h meri ladki ki taraf ye apni responsibility kyu nahi nibhata h par kisi ne sachai janne ki kosis nahi ki sachai ye thi ki uske dad ne bina marji ke uski shadi kardi jiska prnam muje bhugatna pad raha h me wapas sasural aa gai humari first anniversary thi par kuch nahi kiya hum honeymoon par nahi gaye the to ghumne bhej diya oe waha bhi mere pati ka behavior wesa hi raha rukha rukha tab mene kaha ki to yaha lane ki jarurat hi kyat hi sabko kya jatana chahte ho tum hum 5 6 din bad wapas aa gaye jab hum rasthe me train me the tab unhone kaha ek bat kahu muje aaj uski bahut yad aa rahi h hum akshar is train se safar kiya krte the muje bahut bura feel ho raha tha but hakiqt to ye hi h ki chand chutkiyo me 6 sal ka sath nahi bhulaya ja sakta tha to me bhi unki bato ko dil par anhi le gai par jab hum ghum kar wapas ghr aa gaye tab uske 1 2 din bad hi unhone ek bat kahi jo muje jhakor gai ki agar tumare ghar wale lade nahi court chacheri na ho aaps me ladai jhagda na ho to me tume chodna chahta hu agar esa hoga to nahi me badnami nahi chahta apni or anahi apne gahr walo ki ye bat sun kar me rone lagi to khte h me majak kar raha tha ab aap hi batiye esa koi majak karta h or me tumari sadi karauga bolo koi bhi pati apni patni ke liye dusre pati ki sochta h ghum kar aane ke bad se hi inka bartaw badal gaya h mujse thik se pesh nahi aate h office se aate h apne mom dad ke pas bethe rahte h fir room me aate h khana khate h or lappy par work karte rahte h jab me so jati hu tab thodi der bad so jate h subah nasta karke nikal jate h fir din bhar call bhi nahi karte ab aap hi bataiye plz… me kya karu mera man karta h bhag jau ya shusait kar lu kya hal nikal sakta h aap hi batao dosto plz… aage kya ho sakta h meri life me plz muej bataiye..
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Name dipanjali ray
aapki story padh kar mera dimag kam karna band kar diya bt bhagvan par bharosa rakho sab thik ho jayega or koi na koi rasta to jarur nikale ga
Nisha Rai
purva g aap ka story bahut hi tough hai.ye paad kar bahut hi dukh huwa. aap duniya ko chod do kyun ka bolega ka sochega dammcare kardijiye.malum hain muslik hoga par namumkin toh nahi hain na. pati ko chod do khud k aapni life hoti hain aapne khud ka life jiyo. study main focous karo aur aapne jindagi ka kuda ka malik bano. wo aap k liye nahi tha aur kohi aur hoga aap k liye jo shirf aap k liye ho.
Alexzendar Aquib
Dekho yr nafrat ko pyar se jeeta ja skta hai yr
apke pati apse nafrt krte h to kre lekin ap unka khoob dhyan rkho unko khoob pyar do yr,
itna pyar do ki us ladki ka pyar apke pyar ke aage feeka pad jaye,
phr dekho jeet apki hi hogi
Hariom Yadav
Bahut dukh hua tumhari story read krke lekin ab hm kya kr sakte jo krna h ab apko hi krna h lekin jo bhi krna bahut soch samjh kr krna koi glt kadm mt uthana nhi to whi ghr wale tumhe fir jarur galt sabit kr denge or tum kuch kr nhi paogi aram se bat kro unse jitna ho sake un pr dhyan do
Manhoos...
Didi don’t take much tym in taking decision u had already wasted many days,or may be years in d hope dat every thing wil be fine…
Manhoos...
Leave him…
start studing…n get job…liv ur lyf as d way u want…you r the owner of ur lyf…jab larki bhag k sadi karti hai 2 maa baap kehte hai 2mhari galti 2m samjho…par maa bap jab hamari sadi karate hai apni marji se tab agar sasural me kuch hota tab q maa baap piche hat jate uss waqt hum q compromise kare..duniya me log sirf nashiat dete kuch karte nai…kal ko agr kuch hoga 2 duniya khana nai khilayega…if a person throw stone on ur path than its up to u wht u make with it wall r bridge…u r d creater of ur lyf…a person who wins without a problem it’s victory n when a person win with lots of problem than we cal it as history…so make ur lyf a history 2 other…always have 2 plan for ur work keep 2nd 1 for the back up…phele khud ko strong banao taki 2m unke bina reh sako(financialy strong)…n remember no mercy…if they had make ur lyf curse than make them all fell d hell. every day….just dont give up…n my suggestion 2 u immediately leave him…
shivani
Seriously a tough story to believe. Aise bhilog hai duniya mei. Mai to yahi kahungi be practical n straight forward. Kisi din atmosphere dekh k unse kaho k apko kuch baat karni haii imp. N ask him directly… K wat he want. Agar still he want divorce to jabardasti sath rehke koi faida nahi…ap paadhai continue kro..sath sath job kro n be independent.. Prive him k apko chod k usne kitni galti ki hai… Trust yrself n be brave.
aditya verma
Didi main kya bolu apki story padhkar to main ro pada..Mujhe to yahi lagta hai ki jis relationship me understanding hi nhi us relation ka kya matlab aap meri mano to unse time nikaalkar us bare me baat kiya karo aur kosis karo ki wo aapko bahar ghumane lejaye aur ek importent baat..
Ap Zizu ko ye plzz feel karati raho ki unhone galti ki hai but jhagd karke nhi thode pyaar se ok…aur jitna hosake aap ye unhe feel karao ki aap unki gf se better ho jahan tak hosake unse baatein karti raho bcz baat karne se wo inhe bhool payenge…
Didi sab thik hojaye to plzz call nhi karpao to ek msg mere no par jarur kardena my mob no is 9031718483,9097246074..
Mein Bhagwaan se aaplogo k liye pray jarur karunga bye Didi …Best of luck Didi..!!
ankit
Dekho wo to nhi sudhrega or usne apki jindgi bhi kharab kr di h..ab to bs ye ho sakta h ki app apni ladai khid lade or uske chodne se phle app use chod de pr me apko koi galt tarikka nho batuga apko indepandent banana padega a apko uske bare me sochna chod dena chaiye or ek dm selfish bn jana cahiye..dekho abhi tm age padh kre k apni life sudhar sakte ho ghar ko chod k kisi achi si govenment job k liye mahnt kro or apne life ko khud sudhar lo ajj ki life me koi kis ka nhi h na ghar wale or na bhar wale jb koi tumhare bare me nhi sochta to tm bhi mt soch kisi k bare me or bina pati k bhi life achi trha se ji ja sakti h kuch bhi galt mt krna jo hogya so hogya ab apni yakdor khid liko marte to kayr h or kis k bhkave me bhi mat aoo agr apko koi bhi help cahiye to muj se cotect kr sakti jo i will help u so goli maro sab ko or sirf apne bare me soco kuch nya kro jiski sab masal de u can make a hostory…god bless u
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preetmahi
nhi aisa mat krna vo log aapko blame krne k liye bahana hi dhoomd rhe he aap unse sabse baat krna chod do unko kuch b kehna chod do ek din wahe guru sab thk kr denge g
anup
Aporava tum ek smjdar ladki ho tum bhi apnay pati ko thda jaylsi karo tum bhi phonper kisesay bat karo jout kay liya aur nahi to tum apnay pati ko itna pyaar karo ki usay bhool jay and pl coll me
pagal deewana
us ldki se bat kro.. or use smjhao.. apne pti ko hmesa khush rkhne ki kosis kro.. uski kisi b bt ka bra mt mano.. i wish… wo jrur lotega..