M a Punjabi Sikh 19 yr girl…
I was in love when i was in 11th… I met him when was going for my beautician program after my 10th exams in his mothers salon.
He is a Punjabi, Hindu 23 yrs boy.
We used to met there almost daily as he used to sit on the billing counter… We got in love… My dad lived in another country at that time.. My dad wanted to settle there ND bring us there for a better future.. Me my mom and my brother lived together in Amritsar… Nd this salon was near my house… I used to go their daily… After some time my mom come to know about us… As my family was against this love and relation… She beat me up and warn me not to talk him again.. But i was in love i didn’t stop meeting him… I passed my 12th and after that we used to meet each other… Exchange gifts on special occasions…
Then i got admission in college for my b.com… I started bunk my classes to meet him we go for movies… Moreover. Both of us were totally mad in love with each other… We use to give surprise parties to each other in big hotels with our friends and expensive gifts as well.
Now his family know about me.. But not my family..
Now we really wanted to marry each other as our relation was 3 yrs old… But my mom come to know about us many times ND she beat me up all the time because of this relation.. We wanted to get marry but i wasn’t 18 at the time..
Afterwards my parents found a rich guy for me as he was from the same cast and religion as well.. I refused to marry him but they forced me as my mother already knew but she wasn’t so sure that i still love my bf. They forced me to engage with the guy they choose for me. And i did engagement with that guy… But i don’t love him and i don’t use to talk to him nicely.
I still love my bf and i used to tell him everything. So, he know about this engagement as well. We both trust each other like god.
Early after few months As my father sponsor me and my family to CANADA ND we got visa.. Me ND my bf was happy and sad at the same time..
I cant marry him at that time… Then i came to Canada… And after 7 months it was my birthday… My bf made a tattoo on his arm of my name at that day. I was so happy as it means a lot to me..he made my bday special even we were so far…
Both of us wanted to get marry as soon as possible bcoz my parents did my engagement somewhere else and they wanted me to get marry first month after a year.
So there is still a year.. But my family were so excited as they were looking for wedding planners and all..
I cant talk to my parents about this relation because if i tell them they gonna marry me imideatly with the guy i was engaged because they were against inter-cast and interfaith marriage…
I wasn’t prepared to marry this much soon as i want to marry my bf at-least after one year… But these circumstances my bf cant wait anymore to get married… It was his bday and he forced me to come and marry him…. So i decide to go to India without informing my parents and marry him.
His parents were agree for this marriage. I went to India…
I don’t know how my father come to know that i am going to Chandigarh airport..he ask his friend and my cousin to go there ND meet at my flight arrival time….they tried to force me to go with them…
My father talked to me on phone and said he will let me marry my bf for that i have to go to my village with my cousin for now..
I knew he wont do anything like he is saying..all of them tried a lot to force me to go there..but i refused very clearly..
My dad ask me for a phone number…So that he can contact me… I gave my bf’s number. They went back.
Me and my bf went to the place where he arranged to stay for wedding… My in-laws were there… They all were so happy… Even me as well.. I was missing my family but his love make me forgot everything…my in laws arranged every small traditions for me that my family suppose to do…
My family used to call me twice daily.. I was hesitate to talk to them because of the step i take… My dad made me believe that he will accept this marriage as he love me a lot.
They want me to come back to Canada as soon as possible because they don’t want other people know that i came to do love marriage
My bf as he is my husband now.. He and his family also agreed that i can go because they understand a girl’s father’s reputation issue.
After one month i came back to Canada… After few weeks i saw my parents they were totally different as expected…. My father ND mother started emotionally blackmailing me…. Like m gonna die soon… I will do this do that…i was totally shocked.
I was suffering with this attitude at home.. My husband calls me.. I cant talk to him if my dad is there… He text me nd i was frustrated at home bcoz of my family nd i start fighting wid him for small things…
I started disappoint him for everything. I used to fight a lot with my mom… Even she cant help me for anything but my dad abuse her because of me… I was alone i used to fight with everyone except my dad… I had no expectations with him anymore… I love my husband more than anything but i didn’t wanted to leave him.. If he talked about family i was feeling insecure from his family like everyone wanted to make us apart.. I start hating his family as well.. Now i am alone nobody to whom i love or who love me.
I start taking setting with a physiologists.. I started to explain him everything.. He was a white person so for him all these thing were so awkward.. I was this much helpless that i went to a physiologists to share my situation… I disappoint everyone in my life… I hurt all the people around me.. I wanted to kill myself but i am not strong enough to do that.. I tried once but unfortunately nothing happen to me.
My Dr. Suggested me to forgot about everything and restart my life for my own self only.. As i am really young to handle all this..
But i love my husband i cant leave him. I cant leave my parents.
Now its almost a year that i am married. My husband is still in India.
3 weeks ago his mom called my dad to know what we have decided for this relation i ask my dad what he want… I ask my husband what he want… If he wanna continue this relation than he have to wait one more year because now i started my studies. I cannot come till the end of my course.
My husband ask me that he will continue this relation only if i come to India within 10 days… Otherwise he is good to stay alone
My dad ask me that i have to divorce my husband or leave my family.
I decided to go for my husband but i cant go to India because now i want to be something for my own-self…
I requested a lot to my husband to give me one year… He said i made him feel shame in the society in his relatives because i marry him and left him alone…
Now he dont even reply to my messages… He dont wanna talk to me… He said he dont wanna give me divorce and he dont wanna live with me as well…
I am done with everything now…. Please tell me what should i do now????

Submitted By:- rajpreet

Hello guys mera name Ruman 🙁 .. from UAE Dubai … Today / february / 2016 … Ye story 100% True or meri apni story hy jo k me type kr rha hon k Pyar me ladki bhe had se gujar jati hy agr wo true lover hy to 🙂 … Soo guys aj se 2 years phly Me or Kalpana Fb (facebook) per mile thy 🙂 .. me kabhi ni bhul skta wo din jab mene unhen Dekha to mery dil me Khayal aya k inka name kitna Pyara hy ” kalpana ” … Joky me muslim hon Or Muslim you know guys k Ese name only Film’s me sunty hein 🙂 so meri real life me ik ese name ki larki enter hui… Halaky us se bt bhe ni ki thi mene ubi tak bs picture’s hi dekhi thi … Dekhny me Handsome+cute sb kch hon… Or is type k ladkon k pas bht ladkiyan hoti hy hein sb ko pata hy.. matlb me schi bt kron to sania+HaNniya malik + Sana (from india) + maha (pakistan) or matlb bhot ladkiyan rhi meri life me… Or us time bhe me 2+3 k sth flirt krta bhe tha..matlb sb se pyar.. :p … Fr mene kalpana se bat ki… Kalpana ny kaha k mein janti hon ap jisy ladkon ko.. ap sb girls k sth flirt halaky kalpana bikul right thi .. fr bhe mene usy dheere dheere fasaya.. matlb ye k pyar ka natak ….fr dheere dheere time gujarta gya or me usky or pas ata gya… Akhir 5 month ya maximam 6 month bad last me usy mjhse bhe pyar ho hi gya… Ub jab ladki ko ksi se true love ho jaye to me ni janta tha k usky liye me khuda k jisa hon matlb wo itna manti thi mjhy us time…. Fr jab ik ladki tmhry thoda pas aa jaye to insan ko nakhry aa jaty hein… Matlb pata hota hy k she love me she can’t live widout me.. mjhy already gusa bhot ata hy.. me had se jada gusa krta hon.. matlb control ni hota mera mjh pe… Per wo ladki sb kch janty hue bhe pyar krti rhi … Mene us ko jhut bola .. dhoka diya jo bhe kiya bs usny reply me pyar hi kiya… Ik ladki jo janti thi k wo Hindu hy fr bhe us ny mjhse true love kiya… Mjhy call bhe ki to us ny khud k blance pe… Itni selfish thi wo sirf mery liye 🙂 wo ni chahti thi k me usky pyar pe shaq kron… Us ny meri har wish puri ki mene smjha k ni me ny usko pyar krna sekhaya hy 🙁 … Per us ny mjhy pyar ka har prove diya… Me jab jab gusa krta rha wo agy se kbiii naraj ni hui..Mene tw garor me aa kr 5 days ya 1 week bt ni ki ???????? wo ik girl ho kr ???????? roti rhi.. status dalti rhi… Mery liye or me ne ????????Mene dukh k siwa kch ni diya ????????Usny mjhy dukh +drd se dor rkha ???? mjhy hr khushi di or khud dukh sehti rhi ???????????????? me batmeeji krta rha ???? wo pyar krti rhi ????Me uska galt use krta rha ???? wo fr bhe pyar krti rhi…Me dor rkha 15+18 days tak bt ni ki…???? fr bhe wo mery any pe thodi naraj hui fr bhe apna smjh kr pyar kiya ????Pyar krna mene ni…. Kalpana ny sekhaya ???? me smjhta rha mene uska dil ???? meri itni okat kaha… Rich baap ki bigdi olad… Jis ny nasha kiya ho wo kiya jane muhabbat . Pyr to wo jis ny prove krny k liye Apna dhram sb kch kadmo me dal diya …. Us ny apna dhram .. us ny Masha’aallah bhe kaha ??? Mery liye… Us ny 1 muslim k sth true love kr k dekhaya ???????? matlb wo sb kch chod kr mery liye ana chahti hy aj bhe hum aj bhe whatspp+call’s pe bt to krty hein….per us ladki ny mery liye sb kuch kr k dekhaya.. she is the 1 of my fav Girl in the world .. she call me her Lion … She always says Ruman you are the 1 piece in World..
She have proud on me… 🙂 bs dil kiya aj apni reality sb ko bta don k scha pyar kro friends.. true love me power hy or 1 is ladki ny mjhy ehsas krwa diya 🙂 … Ub me zindgi bhar k liye sirf or sirf kalpana ka hi rhonga..

Submitted By:- Ruman suhaib